Sandra Omo shares her thoughts about life, love and living happily ever after

Have you ever heard the saying, ‘she is a model, man, you are not her type’? I bet we all have, and still do. If you have not before now, well, you have just read it so that puts you in the category of those who have heard it. This saying has become such a cliché that I just can’t help the urge to talk about it after the discussion I had with a fellow model yesterday. I sat next to her during a shoot for a video as she rattled on about her relationship and love in general. Boy, I have never had such a long discussion about relationships before. This was the only thing she talked about all through the shoot, and you cannot imagine how long it takes to do a video shoot. At the end of it all, she was very happy that I had actually listened to her without getting bored. Well, I knew I would get a column out of it.
“He actually tells her that all men fantasise about other men just as he does”
She is in love with this man who really has no idea about what he wants in life yet. Although he has a job, it’s not what you and I would call a job; he is not in any way cute, and much more older than she is; he hardly reciprocates her love, and still thinks he might be gay. He actually tells her that all men fantasise about other men just as he does. I am not a man but I do not think this is true in any way. Well if I am wrong, please guys let me know.
Before, yesterday, I have had discussions with uncountable people who believe that models are not out there for love, even if they are, then it is only with certain kind of people; the successful and extremely cute. It is true that as a model, there will always be an array of cute and successful people after you but this does not mean that they are our preference. I actually feel a lot of pity for guys when I hear them use the ‘she is a model, you are not her type’ phrase because this often means they are below the models’ type.
Is there any such thing as ‘the models’ type’? Well let us take Kate Moss for example. Would you call Pete Doherty ‘the models’ type’? I mean all the lists speak against him; he is not cute in any way, a drug user, Kate paid all the bills, and career wise, his is crap compared to hers. Most of you chaps would agree that you are better than this. Then why do you then think you are not the models’ type? It is not only the men who think this way as I have seen many women feel intimidated by male models because they think since he is a model, he only dates models.
Well, if any of the examples above is what ‘the models’ type’ is, then I should be ashamed to be a model. Fortunately, they are not and, and my point is that there is no such thing as ‘the models’ type’.
Firstly, models are human and as a result, our desires are based on human needs. Like most women, we just want to be in love, wake up to breakfast in bed, have a healthy family, and above all live happily ever after. But the loss of faith in these things often means that, unlike other women, we spend 99 per cent of our time pursuing our career rather than these things because the key to our career is ‘now’ so we cannot afford to put it aside, not that we are not interested in love. Therefore, the next time you have a genuine feeling towards one of my counterparts, feel free to show it without any timidity because guys, love lives here too.