» Ghosts in Preston Manor?
Are there ghosts in Preston Manor? Rachel Pegg donned a proton pack and 80s boiler suit and headed in.
It is nearly midnight and I am sitting on the floor in Preston Manor, in the pitch dark, talking to a ghost. And the ghost is talking back.

I’m not the world’s biggest sceptic, but I’m not exactly in the habit of trying to communicate with the dead. So when I was asked to take part in a paranormal investigation, I thought it would just be a bit of a laugh.
Four generations of the Stanford family: do they haunt the house today? Image © The Royal Pavillion, Libraries & Museums, Brighton & Hove
Ever since being conned by Sarah Greene and Michael Parkinson on Ghostwatch in the early 90s I haven’t really paid much – or any – attention to shows such as Most Haunted. But the idea of having a private tour of Preston Manor in a small group and going into rooms not normally visited by the public sounded appealing, even if I didn’t get into the paranormal stuff.
“People have been locked in rooms. Doors slam shut. You can hear voices shout at you”
Hours later, I am wandering around with a Ghostbusters-style electro magnetic frequency monitor, pointing it into every shadowy corner and desperately willing it to start flashing to indicate an other-wordly presence. I might not have believed in ghosts before the lights were turned off, but things are different now. Egged on by the hype of the evening (medium Sue keeps telling me a dead woman is standing behind her), I am desperate to catch sight of something supernatural.
Ghost tour guest Terry Ward took this picture of a strange light in a left hand window of the manor. Rebecca later saw a woman standing there.
The night I attended was organised by The Spirit Parlour, a company run by bubbly and normal-seeming husband and wife Scott and Rebecca Simpson. Guests get an exclusive tour and the chance to use specialist equipment to track some of the characters who have inhabited the manor over the last 1,000 years.
There are a wealth of lost souls to choose from. The dozens of ghost stories surrounding Preston Manor include a lady in white who used to haunt the Stanford family, the last private owners of the house. The legend says that ‘Mad Jack’ – the son of the manor’s last owner Ellen Stanford – discovered that the ghost was the soul of a nun who was buried in the grounds. He found her skeleton in the garden, had it interred in consecrated ground, and the troublesome hauntings stopped, at least for a while.
Scott Simpson checks his electro magnetic frequency monitor.
Today the white lady is one of a number of ghosts whose presence is sometimes felt. Penny Balchin, our tour guide and a Brighton and Hove museum teacher, said she and other staff are plagued by eerie happenings. She said: “People have been locked in rooms. Doors slam shut. You can hear voices shout at you. They talk in your ear, but someone else won’t hear it. They really hurt your ear sometimes.” Before working at Preston Manor, Penny had never seen or heard a ghost. Now she can’t stop.
Okay, coming from a tour guide, this is a sales pitch. But that doesn’t stop me peering into closed-off corridors and rooms as we walk through the grand house in the hope of spotting a mysterious figure. Scott, a jovial and approachable man who believes his home is haunted by his dead dog, claims he has been able to see ghosts in a Sixth Sense way since childhood, when his ‘imaginary’ friend was the spirit of a 17th century farmer. Scott is keen to stamp out any preconceptions people might have about what it’s like to communicate with the deceased. “There is a trend in the media to hype it up,” he explains, in the weary tone of one who has to repair the work of a lesser craftsman: “We don’t talk about Yvette Fielding. We are much more concerned with the spiritual aspect of it.”
Penny Balchin, Sue Smith and Rebecca Simpson try to contact the dead using pendulums.
Our journey into the land of the dead involves mother and son mediums Sue and Leigh Smith ‘contacting’ relatives of our tour group who have passed on to the ‘other side’. Characteristically, none of mine push themselves forward in time for me to communicate with them, but others seem happy with the messages they receive.
We are taught that, while on investigations, it is common to be unable to hear or see ghosts at the time, but to find evidence of them later, on photographs and voice recordings – no Photoshop allowed. Even in the days of digital cameras, it is still impressive to pour over The Spirit Parlour’s pictures of unexplained light effects and auras which they claim represent the departed.
A recording of a child’s voice whispering in the manor’s nursery is pretty spooky to hear minutes before being led around the house in the dark. On the tape, the child answers questions shouted out imploringly by the investigators, who can’t hear her and who sound faintly ridiculous.
But when I later hold a pendulum between my thumb and forefinger and ask a ghost to talk to me by moving it, I find the urge to attempt to ‘converse’ strangely compelling.
When others used the pendulum and got wild, swinging circles for ‘yes’ and frantic forwards and backwards motions for ‘no’, I have to say I thought they were secretly moving their fingers. But I kept my hand almost completely motionless and the pendulum still responded, changing direction appropriately and with remarkable speed, tracing out patterns that suggest I am talking to Ellen Stanford.
I’m not saying that’s irrefutable proof of an afterlife, but it certainly did make me think.
The Spirit Parlour will be at Preston Manor during Brighton Festival Fringe on Saturday 10 and 17 May. For tickets at £55 each visit www.thespiritparlour.com or call 01273 834480.
Preston Manor is open between 1 April and 30 September, Tues-Sat 10am-5pm and Sun 2-5pm. Admission is £4.10/£3.40/2.40 with family tickets available.








June 12th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
ive been top preston manor asnd i sawe nothing but heard some thing so scary things you can not imagine screams and cries orbs things you could not even see in your dreams
June 26th, 2009 at 3:51 pm
i went to preston manor on a school trip today. first of all, it didn’t seem that scary. then it got a bit spooky because it was bigger than it seemed. The servants quarters looked disgusting and scary and then James (the footman) let us on to a secret saying that there were two spare rooms but once when someone slept in there they claimed to hear strange noises and see things moving and doors slamming. Seeing this website made me believe what the footman said i bet it’s scarier at night though, you wouldn’t get me in there alone!
Joe aged 10
September 20th, 2009 at 2:14 pm
I was at Preston Manor a week ago. There was only a group of students with a guide and me. So I went alone trough the house and when I went up to the bedrooms and the nursery I said to myself that this house seems to be the perfect place for ghosts. When I went back to the hall I saw all the informations about Ghost hunting pinned at a board and read it. I was very glad that one of the staff members went down to the kitchen and the rooms there with me. I don’t think that I would have gone alone after knowing that this house IS hunted. I’m glad that I havn’t seen or heard something special! I don’t know if I would go in it alone or at night…
August 18th, 2010 at 5:41 pm
I went to Preston Manor on a class trip just under two years ago. Being someone who believes and sometimes can see ghosts, I was excited to hear that we were going to enter a place supposedly haunted. Once we had entered, I was told, by our Teaching Assistant, that she had experienced two ghost like encouters there. I had not felt them and was willing to listen to her stories. First, she said it, as she was the last in the group, she had heard footsteps behind her. Possibly a coincidence. Then she said that the table she had her hands on shifted- like a Ouija board? Anyway, when I heard this, I thought it would be good to share this. Spooky- huh?
August 30th, 2011 at 5:51 pm
i visited Preston manor today 30/9/2011 and it was a great place was really pleased i made the two hour journey when i went upstairs i felt as if something small was around my feet then i thought i heard someone behind me then i felt my hair move at the back of my head,i put my hand on my head and it felt cold then i went up the next stair case and felt a bit weird i walked to the room with the toys in and i heard a child s voice,yes i did run down them stairs and asked was anyone else up there but no one was after a while i braved it and did a naughty i put on my video camera and stood on the stairs leading to the toy room, it felt weird a sudden breeze past me and i stayed a few more seconds then after that i left and found all the little pet graves in the garden i thought i sensed something small round my feet but when i downloaded the video it was great i have weird sounds and some kind of breeze going past and a child s voice,i did run when i heard the foot steps,i think they should allow photos to be taken in the house then more people would visit its absolutely wonderful with all that activity i have downloaded the video on you tube listen very carefully to it