Malone’s clinging onto precious time to herself as her child’s father let’s her down once again
My daughter’s father sees her one weekend a month and right this second we are having a text row about how he needs to be at work one of these days. My viewpoint is that he only sees her once a month (to be fair, he only has one weekend off a month) and that he is dedicated enough to his job already, surely?
I said he needs to prioritise his child over work. This hasn’t gone down well. Well, what hasn’t gone down well is mentioning that it would upset his two-year-old. He is banding about the phrase: ‘emotional guilt trip’, which I totally disagree with. Surely I am just stating the truth? It does upset her. What am I supposed to do, not tell him the truth? He doesn’t get to see what happens, he’s not here to see how his absence affects her. Does he think I would make it up to make him feel bad? Or he’d rather I’d not tell him? Treat him like a child? Mother them both?
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