» Wave: It’s Not You
Each month, dating coach Tammy James answers your relationship questions
I have been single for 18 months now. I have met a few men and everything seems to go wonderfully for the first few weeks and then they stop calling me. I am very much a person who wears their heart on their sleeve and I let them know I like them so don’t understand why they don’t want to see me. Where am I going wrong?
It could be that you’re going on dates with people you aren’t that suited to, or it could be because you’re being too open with them. Being open about how you feel is essential in a relationship, however, in the early stages you need to be a bit more guarded. When you first start dating someone, you’re both trying to suss out how you feel about each other and although it can be really helpful to share how you feel, some may find it a bit overpowering and back off. It may seem a little unnatural, but in the first month don’t have any conversations about how you feel, just focus on whether you’re having fun. If it is going to lead to a relationship, you’ll have plenty of time to talk about it.
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