First Ever Domestic Abuse Pathway … For Men

Brighton and Hove’s first ever care pathway for men experiencing domestic violence or abuse has been unveiled. Until now, heterosexual men had to access national helplines, but the new pathway means they can get help and support directly via Victim Support, an independent charity for victims and witnesses of crime. RISE, Brighton and Hove’s local domestic abuse charity, will continue to offer help and support for gay, bisexual and trans men. Free specialist advice and information, available to women and men, is also available every Wednesday between 9am and 12noon at a Domestic Abuse Surgery at Hove Town Hall.

This pathway is a new way of working, and is being delivered by RISE and Victim Support, who are working together with support from Sussex Police and Brighton and Hove City Council. Around one in five reports locally are from men who have experienced domestic violence or abuse, according to the city’s 2013 Strategic Assessment.

Brighton and Hove City Council Leader Jason Kitcat said: “Domestic abuse destroys lives and that’s why we’re determined to prevent it. This new care pathway should make it easier for men experiencing domestic violence to seek help. Working closely with city partners, we run a whole range of services and initiatives to not only make sure residents know what domestic abuse is but where they can get help to stop it. This ranges from educating school children about healthy relationships and providing direct advice and help to those affected, to offering a refuge to those directly under threat.”

Brighton and Hove City Council Violence against Women and Girls Strategy Commissioner, James Rowlands, said: “Domestic violence or abuse has a devastating impact on people’s lives. Men can be reluctant to seek help so we think this new care pathway, and having help and support which is available locally, is a major step forward.”

John*, client of the Domestic Abuse Surgery at Hove Town Hall, said: “I didn’t think anyone would listen to me, or believe that I could be so scared of my younger brother.”

Matthew* added: “I am still suffering from an abusive relationship which ended months ago. I came to the drop in surgery with little hope and left feeling stronger and with a clear idea about where to go for ongoing support.”

*John and Matthew are not their real names.

It is essential to recognise that domestic abuse can affect anyone at any time, irrespective of gender, gender identity or sexual orientation. Victim Support can provide help, and those who need support can contact them directly on 0845 389 9528 (Monday-Friday 8am-8pm, Saturday 9am-5pm).

To access the Domestic Abuse Surgery, visit Hove Town Hall on Norton Road, BN3 4AH, and ask for ‘The Surgery’ at reception.

For more information on domestic abuse, visit: http://www.safeinthecity.info/getting-help